White Elephants
Creativity requires the courage to let go of certainties. –Erich Fromm Have you ever been to a White Elephant gift exchange? Here’s how it works: You go through all the stuff you have lying around and choose one thing that no longer sparks joy—but might spark joy in someone else’s heart. Wrap it up, and get together with a group of friends. Everyone winds up with whatever someone else brought, and goes home with something new and unusual. Usually, when you open your “new gift,” you have one of three reactions: You laugh out loud (or cry inside), thank the giver—and plot to drop it off in a public trash bin on the drive home; Or . . . you stare in dismay, paste a smile on your face—and start imagining which friend might receive this wonderful gift at the next White Elephant party; Or . . . you genuinely delight in this unexpected gift, this thing that you can hardly believe someone else no longer wanted, because it will look great right next to the g...